Meeting Girls Online Using Facebook - Step By Step!

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Meeting women online gets easier and easier every day – especially with the advent of new social networking sites like Facebook. I know you were probably expecting me to say Myspace, but actually, Myspace has become a spammer haven. There is so much CRAP in Myspace now – I personally hate it. Its like looking at a bad video from the 80’s, pretty soon they are going to have black-light posters up and a velvet Elvis. Anyway – I really like Facebook a lot better, and you really CAN use it to meet women .

So here we have Facebook – a LOT more reliable at keeping out the jackass spammers and the people who use it to sell stuff. Now, it is becoming a very fun and reliable way to meet women and just maybe give that dating life of yours that is sucking fumes a fresh breath of air! But – you have to know how to do it right or a) you will get yourself banned if they see you as a spammer or b) you are going to look like some Myspace node who just fell off the rubber tree.

So – here are four things you can do to use Facebook to meet women online…

First make nice and find friends! Seriously. Start to connect with the guys - and other women - who have many cute girl friends. Or even not so cute friends! They can lead you to the hotties. But you have to be cautious at the beginning, or you really could accused of spamming and get kicked out. So sniff out the Facebook junkies who have big networks – and become their friend.

Second – start trying to connect with the women you are interested in a very circumspect manner. Try sending them a friend request and be sure to write a message. Now, if you send a message that says, “Hey honey you are FINE – wanna go out sometime?” She is going to kick you right in your cyber-nuts and block you. Instead – find something about her that you have in common, and find a person that you are both friends with. Instead, say something like “Hey I saw you on Lee’s friend list and I noticed that you love to hike too. Have you ever read been on such and such trail…” Make sure it’s a question, too, so she feels compelled to answer you.

STEP 3: Start using the tools that Facebook offers. If you are meeting women online, you have got to at least use the Group tool. If you want to start doing that – check out the group “Carlos Xuma’s Alpha Lifestyle” – it is a totally cool way to get together with other [SPIN] MEN | GUYS[/SPIN] and discuss the latest dating tips for guys on the internet.

Anyway – create a group that is something that women would get into too. Ok– so no Fantasy Football League Group. Instead try something about maybe wine or cooking, nutrition, the latest reality show or local venues. Something a woman can get into. Then – invite her to your group!

The last step is where you really start getting into the good stuff. Here is where you begin to take your Group offline – have a party at a local bar, or a wine tasting event, gourmet cooking or even a meeting where you talk about the latest in nutrition. THIS is where you can start really meeting the women .

So – meeting women on Facebook really is possibly – especially if you learn how to come in softly, and take it offline fairly quickly. Now, if you want to learn a ton of other avenues for meeting women online then you should check out David Deangelo’s meeting women online program . Or – if you want to read some SERIOUS dating tips for men by Carlos Xuma remember – you can actually hook up with Carlos on Facebook – he is awesome. Talk about a NETWORK!) check out his Dating Black Book of dating tips.